she asked when he told her what he wanted. "Missus Trotter." said Jeff, "three thousand men will seek to marry you to get your money and property.

So, in fact, you might want to marry John because he reminds you of your father or because you want to get back at somebody for betraying you.

所以，事实上你想与约翰结婚,可能是因为他让你想起了你的父亲,或是因为你想要报复曾经背叛了你的人。